Divorce wasn’t the plan. But here you are.

Let’s make sure this next chapter is rooted in clarity, confidence, and dignity.

AKA Divorce Consulting

Expert guidance for high-discretion divorce

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You didn’t expect to be here.

If you’ve landed on this page, chances are you’re in the middle of a storm.
Everything feels like it’s unraveling—fast.

You’re used to leading. Performing. Delivering.
But right now, nothing feels clear.
And there’s no script to follow.

You’ve made big decisions. You’ve navigated high stakes. But this — this is different.

This is personal.

You want clarity, not chaos. Dignity not drama.

When your life feels uncertain, the last thing you need is chaos disguised as advice.

You want calm in the storm. Structure in the spiral. A path forward that protects your peace and your privacy.

That’s where I come in.

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The calm in the chaos is where your next chapter begins.

You don’t have to do it alone.

You’re allowed to fall apart. And you’re allowed to be held while you rebuild. This is where the real work begins.

Just because your life feels like a mess right now doesn’t mean you are.

Alex Kapp, a white woman with blonde hair, sits on terracotta steps and smiles

I’m Alex.

And I specialize in high-discretion divorce coaching and mediation.

I never expected to become a divorce coach. After 19 years of marriage, two amazing daughters, and a successful acting career in television, my marriage ended, and everything turned upside down. I was left feeling like I had no solid ground to stand on.

Lost. Overwhelmed. And no idea how to move forward.

But eventually I made it through, stronger and more clear about who I wanted to be, and I realized I wanted to be that foundation for someone else.

Now I help people move through divorce with clarity and integrity, and as little unnecessary drama as possible. Because there’s usually more than enough to go around.

What people are saying about AKA Divorce Consulting

  • I found Alex during the hardest chapter of my life—facing a divorce after 19 years of marriage. From the start, she brought humor, wisdom, and deep compassion. She helped me believe there was life on the other side, even when everything felt impossible. I’m forever grateful for her fierce support and steady presence.

    -Robyn

  • Alex is one of those rare people who truly changes your life. She guided me through betrayal and heartbreak with grace, humor, and deep insight. Her words still echo in my mind when I need them most. Divorce is brutal, but Alex helped me see a path forward.

    -Natalie

  • When I met Alex, I was overwhelmed, anxious, and constantly triggered by my high-conflict ex. Her sessions gave me clarity and calm when I needed it most. She listens with empathy and offers grounded, wise support. I’m stronger and more confident because of her.

    -Lisa

  • Alex supported me through a crisis in my 26-year marriage with honesty, care, and compassion. She helped me make the best decisions for me—something even loved ones couldn’t do. I didn’t end up divorcing, but I emerged stronger, more confident, and deeply grateful for her guidance.

    -Liz

  • Alex helped me feel seen, validated, and empowered. She didn’t just support me through the pain—she reminded me of my own strength. I learned to navigate birthdays, holidays, and tough moments with tools I already had. Her guidance made an enormous difference.

    -Bobby

  • Alex was my rock when everything felt like it was falling apart. Her calm, grounded presence helped me find the courage to move forward. With her support, I’ve stepped into a new version of my life—stronger, clearer, and filled with possibility.

    -Kimberly

  • I recommend Alex to anyone navigating the messy, surreal process of divorce. She’s supportive, grounding, and deeply empathetic. She’s been through it, and she gets it. Having her in your corner makes a hard journey more manageable.

    -LL

  • I came to Alex feeling stuck in fear and confusion. She met me with kindness, practical support, and so much heart. I left each session feeling more clear, calm, and capable. She was my lifeline when I needed it most—and I can’t recommend her enough.

    -Keesha

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Let's chart your path forward

Let's chart your path forward

Divorce can leave you feeling unmoored, exhausted, and unsure of whom to trust. You’ve held it together long enough.

If you’re ready for support that’s strategic, grounded, and deeply human—I’m here.

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Why Work With Me?

My unique offering is The Alex Kapp Approach — AKA: experience, straight talk, and a game plan to get you to the other side.

I don’t sugarcoat. I don’t do toxic positivity. I offer direct, grounded support, with a side of dark humor when it’s needed most. The Alex Kapp Approach is about walking with you through one of the most challenging chapters of your life…with clarity, strategy, and just enough humor to remind you that you're still standing. I’ve been through the fire. I took notes. And I’m here to help you find your way forward.