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Mediation that prioritizes clarity, dignity, and control.

Resolve conflict without court. Navigate what’s next with clarity.

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Divorce is stressful — but it doesn’t have to be a battle.

Mediation is a structured, confidential process that helps couples reach agreements on important issues without going to court.

As a neutral third party, I don’t take sides or offer legal advice. I help both of you stay focused, communicate more effectively, and work through the issues — whether that’s co-parenting schedules, financial decisions, or property division.

Most importantly, mediation gives you control. Instead of letting lawyers or a judge make decisions for your family, you and your spouse create your own solutions — with support and structure from a trained professional.

What can be resolved in mediation?

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    Co-parenting schedules and agreements

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    Decision-making responsibilities for kids

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    Child and spousal support

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    Division of property and assets

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    Other divorce-related decisions that need resolution

Mediation can happen before, during, or even after a divorce. Some people use mediation to finalize their divorce terms; others come back to revise parenting plans or resolve new issues.

The process is flexible — and designed to meet your family’s needs.

What to expect



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Free 30 minute phone consultation to determine fit

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Individual intake sessions

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Joint sessions to resolve issues (typically 3-6)

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Clear next steps and summaries of agreements.

Non-binding Memorandum of Understanding can be provided for legal review.

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Mediation is a good fit for you if:

⚓︎ You and your spouse want to stay out of court

⚓︎ You’re both open to problem-solving (even if things are tense)

⚓︎ You want to protect your kids from unnecessary conflict

⚓︎ You want more control over the outcome

Mediation is probably not a fit if:

⚓︎ There’s a history of domestic violence or coercive control

⚓︎ One or both of you refuses to participate in good faith

⚓︎ Either party is out to get emotional justice or seeking to ‘ruin’ the other person

Let's do this!

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Let's do this! ⚓︎

I’m Alex.

And I specialize in high-discretion divorce coaching and mediation.

I never expected to be a divorce coach. I had a long career as a working actor—and then life threw me a plot twist. My own divorce turned my world upside down, leaving me feeling like I had no solid ground to stand on.

But I made it through, stronger and more clear about who I wanted to be, and realized I wanted to be that foundation for someone else.

After building out my career as a divorce coach, I realized I could be of value—not just as a coach—but as a mediator for couples who want to create their own settlement outside of court.

In addition to helping clients as a divorce coach, I help couples negotiate agreements they can live with long after the papers are signed.

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